internet

when all you need is to be you.

i've been feeling a bit like figuring out how to be 'me' lately, is becoming a primary motive. when moving across the country, it's easy to lose a sense of who you are, as you leave everything you've used to identify yourself behind. when i came upon this video, done by one of my favourite internet 'people' (what on EARTH do you call people who are just professionals at interneting??), it said what needed to be said.


we all just need to be a little more... us. 
check out more zefrank on his website.

all over the inter-web

re:claim on urbanebloc? dope!

abby came and visited allie and nicci and i at our pop up shop in March, and hung out for a bit... scoped out the incredible clothing selection that rigorous mess has every month, and took a look at the re:claim jewelry i had for sale. so nice to visit with abby, and such a wonderful testament to allie and nicci's diverse collection of clothes.
if you happen to be in toronto, and want more of rigorous mess, check out their facebook page, where they keep followers updated on upcoming happenings. they just had their april pop-up shop at creatures creating on dundas street, with photographers (erin leydon, nicole dee simmen, and shane fester) and some additional craft folks (national by Elizabeth MacManus, suture by Wes Spencer, and florence and lovelle by Tara Leydon).
keep up with re:claim as well, for info on shop updates, sales, and the rest of the fun going on!
thanks for visiting abby! 

on knitted hats and lofty goals

when i set a goal for myself, i set it in the way i was taught in my masters degree: make it measurable, attainable, and most seriously - make it realistic. that's why when i set goals, they sound a little bit like, 'make sure you do your dishes tonight... or by thursday at the LATEST'.... or 'make sure you still have a $20 bill in your wallet by tomorrow'. i'm very serious about these goals, but rarely do i reach them.
enter robyn, who takes goals very seriously. none of this 'just make sure you eat for the next 3 days' goal setting... she created a list of goals, that she wanted to complete before she turned 40 - and, set out to make 10,000 hats for 10,000 people. she started small - with 100 hats in 2009. now, it's 300 hats in 2013. she's sending hats all over the place, just to complete her measurable goal. one she is determined to complete. and man - she's going to kick it into the ground.
the connection that i have with robyn? i'm a giant online click'a'holic... i start in one place online, and next thing you know, i'm halfway across the internet, on a person's page who i used to go to highschool with. people often interrupt my 'i found this thing online' stories with, 'wait.... HOW did you find that??'
so. here's what happened: i was reading sydney's blog, and in catching up, saw her post on her connection with robyn, from she makes hats. i then spent the next hour reading robyn's blog - her goals, her posts on her designs, and what the project meant to her.
you can imagine my surprise when i received an email from robyn, asking if she could send me a hat. me. a hat. i could not hit reply fast enough. handmade hats are my 'swoonworthy' thing. knitting is something i've never been able to fully master, and my jaw drops at the things people can do with needles and yarn.
so, yes. i said yes so quickly, my internet connection could not keep up.
and a little while later, i received my hat. it is warm, and a colour that goes with everything, but is way less boring than my typical grey. it's slouchy, and perfect. and - as you can see from photos - since i am from canada, i can never ever ever own too many hats. since i lost my last knit hat about a year ago (and have been unable to find one that has come even CLOSE to replacing it), i've been without. it would be far too small of a thing to say that this hat serves as a good replacement for that hat - this one would beat that one in a 100m race.  
i know. i know. just a hat. get over it. 
i won't. i won't get over it. while we're all reading blogs, listening to songza, drinking green tea, and trying to get our acts together, robyn has been whipping out hats for babies in maternity wards, hats for active-duty naval sailors, and hats for people like me (who, relatively, have no good place in her repertoire of hat making). 
robyn is part of an organization called nebraska hats for hope. she knits hats to include in bags that are put together in backpacks with food and other warm things, for children from the local elementary school - a large portion of whom receive some form of public assistance (in the manner of free lunches, and so on). so now, instead of store bought hats, robyn has set out to ensure all those deserving kidlets receive hand knit hats. and here's the key component: we can be involved. if you would like to send robyn hats, to be included in this amazing and inspiring initiative, please send them to: 
Nebraska Hats for Hope Initiative
PO Box 6093
Omaha, NE 68106
i just started knitting again. it's taken me a month to make a headband. but this year, my (realistic) challenge will be to send robyn at least 3 hats. please join me. 
and totally off topic, for those of you who were wondering, the following is the reason i will never ever be a fashion blogger. as soon as there is a camera in front of my face, it inexplicable contorts in ways that i can't control, and leaves me with hundreds of photos that look like this:
i'll leave it at that.

oh! i should also add, that robyn has included instructions on how to knit this hat, on her website. it's based on this hat, but she has altered it... so you can see her changes for the final product here. for those of you WAY more talented with needles than i, check it out! we can match! she also wrote a sweet blog entry about the hat, the process, and what number my hat is (#310) in her grand goal.... check it out here!

you can follow robyn's adventure on twitter, instagram, pinterest (because who doesn't love a good perusal of pinterst?), her website, and even buy some of these hats on her etsy shop.

oops friday i missed you

... and because every week needs a bit of mindlessness.
the oscars last night, and ben affleck's speech made me think of 2 things:
1. canada is awesome.
and
2. ben affleck and matt damon's oscar speech.
guys. if you haven't ever seen this, please watch.
THIS. this is what the oscars should be about. THIS is what the world should be about. excitement  doing what you love, and are passionate about. being excited, and not quelling that excitement, regardless of the environment you're in. hugging long and hard. and bringing your mom as a date to everything. plus, it was 16 years ago (WHAT?!?!) and they look like children.
and, because i like speeches... some of my all time faves: sean penn's speech on winning for his role in milk - because he is never ashamed, and never ever should be; jamie foxx, on winning for playing ray charles, and for thanking the person who taught him to be a good person; steven soderbergh winning best director as traffic - for thanking anyone who uses part of their day to make art; frances mcdormand, who so so eloquently proved as the perfect female winner in her speech alone; and hilary swank - because i love her, i love this movie, and she did politics at the oscars perfectly.
that's all. happy late friday. hope everyone's weekend was delightful!

lies we tell

i lie to myself CONSTANTLY. it could be my strong determination and truest intention to do things that only make my life better... or, it could just be that i am of weak character and i trust myself and my lies A LOT.
nevertheless, when i found these daily lies on miss moss' blog, i needed more. i needed to know someone else falsified their own perception of their daily routine.
i need to know i'm not the only one!
looks like i'm not. looks like lauren is admitting her lies via her project daily dishonesty. thank you lauren - thank you for dispelling myths about this serious topic. and blowing the lid off of those people who tell themselves they're not lying.
my favourite - aka. lies i've told myself at least 67 times each.
you can bask in the hilarity via your own print here. you can also follow the site on twitter for updates. and, just because it's amazing - and proves to you that NO, you can NOT do it yourself - a step by step of how every hand lettered creation is made - here.