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all man things, all the time

i have SUCH man envy. when i was a little girl, i tried VERY hard to pee standing up (much to my parents dismay... they had to reign it in when i had peed all over myself at a family event) (to new readers: i have no shame). i like textures that are typically directed towards men in design - clean, fresh, sharp. i get squirmy around soft things (like fleece, and that gross weird feeling of those super soft socks that girls wear), but i love crisp cotton sheets, and the cool feeling of leather.
needless to say, when i stumbled onto kaufmann mercantile, i was in love. and when i realized it was primarily for men, i said, 'too bad gender roles! i'm coming for you and all of your manly things!' and then promptly chose all my faves.
they're beautiful. gotta catch them all.


some of my faves

all i want for Christmas... books

the cornerstone of any shea family Christmas... books. it's our thing - always books. i told my mom the other day, when she had picked up a 1500 page book for her reading group the other day, that perhaps an e-reader may be in order.... you know. back problems and all. and she refused.
we're just a book loving family. 
so yea - i'd LOVE an iPad for travelling..... i could avoid bringing 5 books everywhere i go. but still. i'll never stop buying, owning, loving books. they're perfect.
and the classics will never be old to me. 
som books i'm craving this holiday season.....
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my (august long) weekend in summary

this weekend was half crazy busy, livin' like a university kid, and half super slow and lazy, living like a (kinda sorta) grown up. it was a good balance. and a much needed relaxation and celebration weekend.
new beading adventures - going to be good stuff; building pieces on a sunny saturday morning; the ladies in 'beautiful' dresses; she's going to be a beautiful bride; kim's cell phone - they seem to be getting bigger and bigger; ugly/awesome dresses - the only way to celebrate a bachelorette; jake's sign for kim to wear all night; in case you forgot, bri has a 'bun in the oven' (award for best bachelorette trooper goes to...); a little ukelele between sister in laws; VIP with strawberries, free drinks, and giant men; henry the fiesty kitten; taco salad at home. 
friday: leaving work, my plan was to venture on a calm shopping trip to the eaton's centre to see if i could find a top for the wedding of the summer... and received a message from my friend saying i needed to come partake in the consumption of some cider with her. so i embarked on a solo LCBO mission, and met her for some cheap chinese food takeout, cider, and vent session all night long. i left fairly early for a friday, and arrived home, got in bed, and managed an early bedtime for a friday. yay me!
saturday: woke up pretty early, put on my bathing suit, and gathered my beading things for some outdoor bead adventuring. my landlord's dad was in town, so he spent some time serving me OJ and club soda, and trying to convince me to become a fly fish lure maker (listen - this may end up being a viable option for my future!), and chatting about life. i fixed some goodies, made some new stuff, and played around with some new supplies i had just picked up. had a long chat with my landlord, and then finally threw a bag together for the remainder of the weekend. after a quick stop to pick up my copilot for the trip, we headed out to london for my friend (jake's fiancee) kim's bachelorette. we arrived in time for some dinner, to throw on our hideous outfits (as directed by the 'ugly dress bachelorette' invite), and have some drinks. after some major pre-bar dance partying, and other shenanigans, we headed out - on a 4 bar downtown london tour... including new friends, VIP service, and a line of high fives all the way out of the final bar. we all cabbed home, and after ravaging the leftover food, we were all out pretty quickly in our respective sleeping places (some of us on floors, air mattresses, in cars, etc.).
sunday: woke up very early (considering our 4am bedtime), and tried desperately to sleep longer. the, spent the morning rehashing the evening's events, cleaning, organizing, and packing our things before we headed home. again, dropped brianne off at home, and travelled back in the rainy weather to jeff's place. after a short night's worth of sleep, i was ready for a nap... and did so promptly. once i woke up, and the sun was back out, we played with the babe kitten that his brother was fostering until he was old enough to adopt, and then walked over to the grocery store for dinner preparation items. made a huge mexican food feast of homemade taco bowl/salads, and ate too much (shocking). we spent the rest of the evening just hanging around, watching some olympics, and not doing a whole lot of anything. after the previous night's escapades, i was ready for bed before midnight.
monday: woke up after almost 11 hours of sleep (i KNOW), lounged around a bit, had a bite to eat, and then headed to the mall to find a wedding outfit appropriate for next weekend's wedding. compiled a mix matched outfit of plaid and grey (you can all hear my heart beating loudly - perfection), and then had lunch before the post shop grump set in. after a failed attempt to find a park to nap in, we ended up at a friend's house - where him and his girlfriend happened to be outside. the four of us went for a drink on a patio to enjoy the sun, and chatted about his new BB gun purchased (we were all a little to excited about the idea of shooting pop cans). after dropping them off, (and a quick side road pullover to ease my sudden freakout about the future) the remainder of the day consisted of pool swimming and lounging, and watching dexter while being lazy. we had dinner, and watched some olympics, and then just hung out. again, an early to bed night after exhaustion and slight sickness has been dragging me down.
it was a good weekend. it was an eventful, and enlightening weekend. it was filled with good talks, good friendship, and good planning for the future (even though i'm a little unsure about what that future holds). it was one of the best weekends in a while. i hope all y'all would agree. 
in other news, today i was alerted to 2 particularly important 'articles' (reflections) that are extremely relevant to my life right now.... and i want to share them.
an article by jessica pearce rotondi on what she knows about having a sister now that she's in her 20's
AND
an article from dan levy on toxic friendships... and shedding unwanted friendship pounds. 
perfect end.

never stop the fun

this morning, i woke up in a fantastic mood. and i'm not entirely sure why - perhaps the accidental sleep in as a result of the alarm mishap - but based on the amount of pain i'm in from back and yet another kidney infection, i should be miserable. but i'm not. i'm happy. and smiling. and the weather is stunning, and will be all weekend. and so.....
i'll never ever stop. for example... this weekend (despite what i should be doing) i'm going to ottawa to visit my dear friends emily, leigh jackson, and elise. and i'm going to love it. and i may even read on the train, instead of working.... could you imagine?
hope everyone has a great couple of days!
image from pinterest

a wedding planning in disguise

one of my best friends in the whole entire world - jake - got engaged recently, in south america, to his amazing girlfriend (fiance? weird) kim. he had been asking for ring advice, and had been planning and planning, and when they left for their two month trip, i was giddy.
then i received the phone call - he did it! they were engaged, and elated. we were all so ecstatic, and couldn't wait to celebrate with them upon their arrival home. and THEN i received the email from jake - asking myself and 5 lovely gentlemen to stand beside him on the day he gets married. hurrah! female groomsman sounds to be my destiny.
so, here it starts. 2 of my favourite people in the world AND i'm being asked fashion advice? uh oh. we have a mere 4 months to pull this wedding off, and as i'm sure you all know enough, i'm dying to organize the whole thing. but instead, i'll simply stick to responding to his queries - like, 'how do we coordinate outifts so people don't have to buy a ton of new stuff?' (uhhhh hello mismatchy wedding party?? my DREAM to be in a wedding party like this!).
so, sorry guys. needless to say, i've been all over pinterest and wedding blogs to try to help this couple (who probably don't want, and definitely don't NEED my help) plan their wedding... and i've been inspired.
on another note, how can i force them to let me plan EVERYTHING? ideas welcome.
a few of my favourite ideas:
jake, kim - need a wedding planner? call me!